This morning, Maria and I had our first moment where we couldn’t believe how old Anna has gotten. I wanted to look back on these first few crazy days with our new daughter and savor them.
Anna is 13 days old today, and is doing great. She’s had good nights and bad nights, great feedings and awful feedings, but we are grateful today to look back and realize we have much more to be thankful for than not. She is still eating like a champ, and she typically sleeps pretty well (though not so much last night…). I think she’s starting to grow, and her head is definitely head-shaped now. She’s doing some pretty intense stretching as I write this, and we’re really starting to see more movement. It’s all still random movement, of course, but she occasionally gets her hand in her mouth or moves herself a little, and I get excited. I just can’t wait to have this little girl start to grow a bit and show us who she is. It will be fun to see her smile and respond to us, and to hear her start to babble.
The fact that she’ll be two weeks old tomorrow is somewhat startling – despite the long nights and busy days it somehow doesn’t feel like it’s been that long. Maria and I are trying to savor this time, reminding ourselves that these moments are special even when Anna is screaming or won’t go to sleep. (To this end we have decided to remind ourselves that when Anna won’t fall asleep at 3am it’s because she is busy building new brain cells.)
In addition to Anna’s general well-being, I am just as grateful that Anna and Maria are bonding more closely every day. Every single morning it strikes me how they seem even more comfortable sitting together. Next week I’ll be going back to work, and it is such a relief to see that mother and daughter will get along just fine.
I would say the house is starting to have a ‘family’ vibe to it. We’re all getting used to each other and calming down, and perhaps we’re starting to get the hang of some of the basics. Anna has been a grand adventure thus far – one that is bringing Maria and I closer together, and opening our lives to new horizons. We were laughing this morning about how our lives used to be so simple and laid back; while sometimes Anna can be a lot to handle, she is certainly livening up the place!